Whakamā i ngā kōrerorero: kōrero me te māia
Kei te tuhi koe i tētahi karere, ka mukua, ka tuhi anō, ka mukua anō. E hiahia ana koe ki te kōrero, engari ka rongo koe i te wehi o te hē, o te āhua rerekē rānei. Mō te hunga whakamā, ka taea te karere iti rawa te āhua o te maunga nui.
Kei tēnei aratohu ka kōrerohia te take e uaua ai te kōrero, me pēhea te tīmata me te māmā, me pēhea te pupuri i te kōrero, te whakahaere i te māharahara, me te neke atu ki te tūtakitanga. He tauira ngāwari kei ia wāhanga, e hāngai ana ki te hunga whakamā.
Te take e uaua ai
Ko te nuinga o te wehi e ahu mai ana i te whakawā. E māharahara ana tātou kei kī te tangata he pōrangi tātou, he hōhā rānei. Engari he maha ngā wā kāore te tangata e whakaaro nui ana ki ia kupu. Ko tōna aro kei tōna ake ao, kei ōna ake māharahara hoki.
Ko te pai o te kōrero ā-karere, he wā tōu hei whakaaro. Kāore he take kia tere te whakautu, kāore he kanohi e titiro mai ana. Mō te hunga whakamā, he painga nui tēnei. Whakamahia hei wāhi whakaharatau, kaua hei wāhi mataku.
- te wehi o te whakawā
- te whakaaro nui rawa
- he wā hei whakaaro
- he wāhi whakaharatau
He aha i whai hua ai: He tauira noa tēnei o te whakamā. Ko te kore tuhi te hua tino kino, nō reira he pai ake te tuhi i tētahi mea māmā.
He aha i whai hua ai: He mea whakamāmā te mōhio he whakamā hoki pea te tangata i tērā taha.
He whakamā koe? Tīkina he karere māmā hei tīmata mai i a Auraliyx.
Whakamātauria a AuraliyxMāu tonu e whakatau he aha ka tukuna.Me pēhea te tīmata me te māmā
Kaua e whai i te karere tino pai. Tīmata ki tētahi mea poto e hāngai ana ki te kōtaha, ki tētahi pātai kōwhiringa rānei. Ko te whāinga kia tīmata te kōrero, ehara kia mīharo te tangata. He pai rawa te karere māmā i te karere kāore i tukuna.
Ka āwhina te tuhi i ētahi tauira i mua. Tuhia ki tō waea ētahi pātai e pai ana ki a koe, ētahi kōrero iti mōu hoki. Ina uaua, ka hoki koe ki taua rārangi. Ka iti iho te pēhanga ina mōhio koe kei a koe kē tētahi mea hei kī.
- kaua e whai i te tino pai
- he poto, he māmā
- tuhia he tauira i mua
- he rārangi pātai
He aha i whai hua ai: He poto, he māmā, kāore he pēhanga. He tauira pai mō te hunga whakamā.
He aha i whai hua ai: Kotahi te pātai, e hāngai ana ki te kōtaha. Kāore he take kia kata, kia mōhio rawa.
He aha i whai hua ai: He pai te pono, engari ka hoatu e te whakapāha maha he taumaha. He pai ake te tīmata tonu me tētahi pātai māmā.
Te pupuri i te kōrero
Ina tīmata te kōrero, kaua e wehi i te wahangū iti. Kāore he take kia whakautu tonu i ia karere. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro, te tuhi mārie. Ko te mea nui ko te tiri i tētahi mea mōu i ētahi wā, kia kaua ai ko te pātai anake.
Ko ngā pātai "he aha ai?" me "i pēhea?" he hoa pai mō te hunga whakamā. Ka tono i te tangata kia kōrero nui ake, ā, ka whakaiti i te pēhanga ki a koe. Whakarongo ki ā rātou whakautu, ka whai ai i tētahi kupu hei pātai e whai ake nei.
- kaua e wehi i te wahangū
- tiria he mea mōu
- "he aha ai?"
- whāia ngā kupu
He aha i whai hua ai: Ka whai koe i tā rātou i kī ai me ngā pātai māmā e rua. Ka kōrero ia, ka ako koe.
He aha i whai hua ai: He pono, he whaiaro, ā, ka mutu ki te pātai. Kāore he take kia huna i tō whakamā.
Te whakahaere i te māharahara
Ina tukuna e koe tētahi karere, ka puta mai pea te māharahara i te tatari. Kaua e titiro ki te waea i ia meneti. Tukuna, ka tahuri ki tētahi atu mahi. Ka tae mai te whakautu ahakoa e titiro ana koe, kāore rānei.
Kia ngāwari ki a koe anō. Mēnā kāore he whakautu, ehara i te mea kua rahua koe. He āhuatanga ake tō ia tangata. Ka pakari tō māia i ia kōrero ka tīmataria e koe, ahakoa te hua. Whakanuia ngā wikitōria iti.
- kaua e mātaki i te waea
- kia ngāwari ki a koe anō
- ehara i te rahunga
- whakanuia ngā wikitōria iti
He aha i whai hua ai: He mea nui te whakanui i te māia, ehara i te hua anake.
He aha i whai hua ai: Ka whakakaha tēnei whakaaro i te whakamā. Kotahi te kōrero, ehara i te whakatau mō tō uara.
Te neke ki te tūtakitanga
Ka taea te tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi te āhua o te hīkoi nui rawa. Tūtohua tētahi wāhi e ngāwari ana ki a koe: he kawhe poto, he hīkoi i te tahatai, he whare taonga rānei. Ka whakaiti te mahi i te pēhanga, nā te mea he mea kē hei titiro, hei kōrero.
Ka taea hoki e koe te pono. Kāore he mea hē ki te kī "he whakamā au i te tuatahi, engari ka ngāwari ake au". He maha ngā tāngata ka rongo i te tata me te pono. Kia poto te tūtakitanga tuatahi, ā, ka taea te roa ake i te wā e whai ake nei.
- he wāhi ngāwari
- he mahi hei aro
- kia poto
- kia pono
He aha i whai hua ai: He mahi, he wāhi ātaahua, ā, kāore he pēhanga kia kōrero i ngā wā katoa.
He aha i whai hua ai: He pono, he kata iti, ā, ka whakaiti i te pēhanga mō kōrua tahi.
Me pēhea e āwhina ai a Auraliyx
Mō te hunga whakamā, he āwhina nui te whai whakaaro i mua i te tuhi. Ka pānui te taputapu Auraliyx i te kōrero, ā, ka tūtohu i ngā karere māmā, i ngā pātai, i ngā tūtohu tūtaki rānei. Ka taea e koe te kōwhiri i te reo ngāwari, i te reo kata rānei.
Kāore te taputapu e kōrero mōu. He tīmatanga noa ngā tūtohu, ā, māu e whakarerekē kia rite ki tōu ake reo. Ka pakari tō māia i te wā, ā, ka iti haere pea tō hiahia ki te āwhina. Ko te whāinga kia whakaharatau koe, kaua kia whakawhirinaki.
- he whakaaro i mua i te tuhi
- he reo ngāwari
- māu e whakarerekē
- whakaharatau
He aha i whai hua ai: He māmā, e hāngai ana ki te kōtaha, ā, he ngāwari te whakautu.
He aha i whai hua ai: He tūtohu poto, kāore he pēhanga, e ngāwari ana mō te hunga whakamā.
Ngā pātai auau
Me pēhea te kōrero ina whakamā au?
Tīmata ki ngā karere poto e hāngai ana ki te kōtaha, tuhia he tauira i mua, ā, kaua e whai i te tino pai.
He pai te kī he whakamā au?
Āe. He maha ngā tāngata ka rongo i te pono me te tata. Kia māmā, kaua e whakapāha rawa.
Me aha au mēnā kāore he whakautu?
Kaua e mau ki te ngākau. Kotahi te kōrero, ehara i te whakatau mō tō uara. Whakamātau anō ki ētahi atu.
Me pēhea te tūtaki me te kore mataku?
Kōwhiria tētahi wāhi ngāwari, he mahi hei aro, ā, kia poto te tūtakitanga tuatahi.
He whai hua? Tukuna ki te tangata e hiahia ana
Ka mihi mai tētahi hoa he rite tonu tōna pātai.
Kōrero me te māia, i tōu ake reo
Ka tūtohu a Auraliyx i ngā karere ngāwari hei tīmata, ā, māu tonu e kōwhiri he aha ka tukuna.
Whakamātauria a AuraliyxMāu tonu e whakatau he aha ka tukuna.