Indlela Yokumema Umntu Niphume: Ixesha Namagama
Nincokole iintsuku ezimbalwa, incoko imnandi, kwaye ngoku ucinga ukuba lixesha lokudibana. Kodwa uyoyika ukuba uza kuthi hayi, okanye uza konakalisa into entle. Ezi mvakalelo ziqhelekile, kwaye ukumema ngendlela elula kwenza kube lula kuni nobabini.
Kwesi sikhokelo siza kujonga ixesha elifanelekileyo lokumema, indlela yokubuza, iingcamango zomhla wokuqala, imizekelo yezimemo, into onokuyenza ukuba uthi hayi, nendlela isixhobo esinokukunceda ngayo.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo
Ixesha elihle lokumema kuxa incoko ihamba kakuhle, nihleka kunye kwaye nithetha ngento eniyithandayo nobabini. Ukuba nithethe ngokutya okuthile okanye indawo, sisizathu sendalo sokuthi "masiye kunye". Akufuneki ulinde iinyanga.
Ukuba ulinda ixesha elide kakhulu, incoko inokubanda. Iveki enye okanye ezimbini zencoko emnandi ngokuqhelekileyo zanele. Kodwa asingomthetho. Ukuba nincokole iintsuku ezimbini kwaye kuziva kulungile, nako kulungile. Qaphela neempawu zokuba naye unomdla wokudibana. Ukuba uthi 'kufuneka sikhe sizame loo ndawo ngenye imini', okanye ubuza ngeempelaveki zakho, sisimemo esifihlakeleyo. Ezi mpawu zikuxelela ukuba ixesha lifikile, kwaye isimemo sakho sinokwamkelwa ngovuyo ngaphezu kokuba ubucinga.
- incoko ifudumele
- into eniyithandayo
- musa ukulinda kakhulu
- iveki okanye ezimbini
Kutheni kusebenza: Ukumema kwendalo encokweni.
Kutheni kusebenza: Incoko inokubanda phambi kokuba nidibane.
Kutheni kusebenza: Ixesha elaneleyo lokwazana.
Awazi ukummema? Auraliyx ikunika iingcebiso zezimemo.
Zama AuraliyxNguwe rhoqo okhethayo into oyithumelayo.Indlela yokubuza
Isimemo esihle siyacaca: sinento, usuku nendawo. "Singadibana ngelinye ixesha" ayicacanga, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo akukho nto yenzekayo. "Ungathanda ukusela ikofu ngoMgqibelo ngorhatya?" kulula ukuyiphendula.
Yenza kube lula ukuthi ewe okanye hayi. Musa ukunika uxinzelelo, kwaye musa ukwenza isimemo siziva ngathi yinto enkulu kakhulu. Ithoni elula yenza nobabini nikhululeke. Kwakhona, cinga ngexesha losuku. Ikofu kusasa okanye isidlo sasemini ngokuqhelekileyo inoxinzelelo oluncinci kunesidlo sangokuhlwa. Kwaye ukuba umntu uneentloni okanye akaqinisekanga, ixesha lasemini linokumenza aziva ekhuselekile, ngoko ukuthi ewe kuba lula kakhulu kuye.
- into
- usuku
- indawo
- ithoni elula
Kutheni kusebenza: Isimemo esicacileyo esinosuku.
Kutheni kusebenza: Ayicacanga, ayifiki ndawo.
Kutheni kusebenza: Ukucaca nomdla.
Iingcamango zomhla wokuqala
Umhla wokuqala olungileyo umfutshane, ulula kwaye usendaweni yoluntu. Ikofu, isidlo sasemini, okanye ukuhamba kwanele. Akufuneki ibe yinto enkulu okanye ebizayo.
Khetha into enivumela ukuba nincokole. Ukuya kwibhayisekopu kumnandi, kodwa aninakho ukuthetha kakhulu. Ukuhamba eKirstenbosch, ukutya kwindawo eyaziwayo eGugulethu, okanye ukutyelela imarike ziingcamango ezilungileyo. Cinga nangendlela yokuhamba nokhuseleko. Khetha indawo ekulula ukufikelela kuyo nobabini, ngakumbi ukuba nihamba ngetekisi okanye ngebhasi. Mxelele ixesha nendawo ngokucacileyo. Ukucinga ngezi zinto kubonisa ukuba uyamkhathalela, kwaye kwenza umhla wokuqala ube mnandi ngaphandle kwexhala.
- umfutshane
- indawo yoluntu
- ukuncokola
- ulula
Kutheni kusebenza: Ukuhamba nokuncokola.
Kutheni kusebenza: Kulula, indawo yoluntu.
Kutheni kusebenza: Indawo yoluntu ikhululekile kuni nobabini.
Imizekelo yezimemo
Isimemo esihle sihambelana nencoko yenu. Ukuba nithethe ngento ethile, yisebenzise. Ukuba akunjalo, isimemo esilula nesicacileyo sanele.
Imizekelo elandelayo ibonisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Khetha ehambelana nawe, uyitshintshe ngamazwi akho. Ungongeza nokhetho kwisimemo sakho, njengokuthi 'ngoMgqibelo okanye ngeCawa, nokuba yeyiphi ekulungeleyo'. Oku kwenza kube lula ukuthi ewe, kuba umntu uziva enokulawula ixesha. Kodwa musa ukunika ukhetho oluninzi kakhulu, kuba isimemo siphinda singacaci kwaye kube nzima ukugqiba.
- sisekelwe encokweni
- esicacileyo
- esihlekisayo
- ngamazwi akho
Kutheni kusebenza: Sisekelwe encokweni, siyahlekisa.
Kutheni kusebenza: Sifudumele kwaye siyacaca.
Kutheni kusebenza: Siyahlekisa, simema ukudibana.
Ukuba uthi hayi
Ukuba uthi hayi, asibobuthathaka bakho. Abantu baneezizathu ezininzi: usenokuba uxakekile, akakalungeli, okanye akafuni budlelwane. Yamkela ngoxolo: "Kulungile, enkosi ngokuthetha inyani."
Ukuba uthi "ngoku andikwazi" kodwa anike olunye usuku, luphawu oluhle. Kodwa ukuba uthi "mhlawumbi" rhoqo ngaphandle kosuku, mhlawumbi akanamdla. Yeka ngoxolo ugcine amandla akho. Emva kokuba ethe hayi, gcina ubuhlobo bakho nobubele. Musa ukumthumelela imiyalezo engqongqo okanye ukuthula ngenxa yokucaphuka. Ukuba nincokola njengabahlobo, qhubeka ngokwendalo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bayalibona ixabiso lomntu obaphathe kakuhle nangexesha lokwaliwa, kwaye oko kuyakhumbuleka.
- yamkela
- hlonipha
- olunye usuku
- qhubeka phambili
Kutheni kusebenza: Unike olunye usuku, uphawu oluhle.
Kutheni kusebenza: Uxinzelelo emva kokuthi hayi lonakalisa intlonipho.
Kutheni kusebenza: Ukwamkela ngentlonipho.
Indlela Auraliyx enokukunceda ngayo
Ukuba awazi ukumema ngamagama athini, Auraliyx inokukunceda. Chaza incoko yenu nezinto enizithandayo, kwaye iya kukunika iingcebiso zesimemo esicacileyo, esilula. Ungakhetha ithoni ehlekisayo, efudumeleyo okanye elula.
Ziingcebiso nje. Uyazifunda, uzitshintsha ngamazwi akho, kwaye nguwe othumelayo. Isigqibo sokumema, nesokudibana, sesenu nobabini. Ungasebenzisa nesixhobo ukulungiselela umyalezo wokuqinisekisa umhla, okanye ukubhala umyalezo emva komhla wokuqala. Umzekelo, umyalezo olula wokumbulela ngexesha elimnandi unokuvula ithuba lomhla wesibini. Kodwa kwakhona, wutshintshe ngamazwi akho ukuze uvakale ngokwenene njengawe. Oku kudla ngokusebenza kakuhle.
- isimemo esicacileyo
- sisekelwe encokweni
- khetha ithoni
- nguwe othumelayo
Kutheni kusebenza: Isimemo esisekelwe kwinto enayithandayo.
Kutheni kusebenza: Silula kwaye siyacaca.
Kutheni kusebenza: Isimemo sohambo olumnandi.
Imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo
Ndimmema nini?
Xa incoko ifudumele kwaye nithethe ngento eniyithandayo, ngokuqhelekileyo emva kweveki enye okanye ezimbini.
Ndibuza njani?
Yenza isimemo esicacileyo esinento, usuku nendawo, ngethoni elula.
Umhla wokuqala umele ube yintoni?
Into emfutshane elula kwindawo yoluntu, efana nekofu okanye ukuhamba.
Ukuba uthi hayi?
Yamkela ngoxolo nentlonipho. Ukuba unika olunye usuku, luphawu oluhle.
Ingaba ibe luncedo? Yithumele kumntu oyidingayo
Umhlobo onombuzo ofanayo uya kukubulela.
Mmeme ngokuzithemba
Auraliyx ikunika iingcebiso zesimemo esicacileyo ngokwencoko yenu, kodwa nguwe rhoqo okhethayo into oyithumelayo.
Zama AuraliyxNguwe rhoqo okhethayo into oyithumelayo.